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Do you want a Better Sex Life? Think like a Woman….
By Vincent | October 30, 2007
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Do you want a Better Sex Life? Think like a Woman…..
She never wants sex anymore…
Is she starting to be your best friend instead of the being to girl you’ve fallen in love with? Dude!! You need to spice up your life!! Get the Romance back, get the Passion back, you need to step up, be a MAN and put some effort in. You can’t blame her for everything (we wish we could though). Take a look in the mirror. I know it’s all easier said than done. You need to think like a woman. You need to help her to be fully satisfied with the sexual experience.
To be totally honest with you guys; I had no idea what I was talking about till a few years ago when I started to read more about women (and I don’t mean porn magazines). A total eye-opener for me was the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. This is the best book I’ve ever read. And now that I’m totally honest with you guys, sometimes I still don’t have a clue what my girl is up to or what she means. But I do know that were both on the same “line”. If you do want to get the passion and romance back in your life you need to understand her better. Here are some “woman” ground rules to live by.
Men and Women are Different.
You’ve got to realize that men and women are totally different in many ways, especially when it’s about sex. For (most) men, it is more for physical pleasure. Most men can sleep with anyone with breaths (especially large breasts). For women it’s more about spirituality, about love, about being close to someone and about sharing something beautiful.
Women Want Sex When They Feel Sexy and Desirable.
You need to compliment her and tell her she’s beautiful. Try buying her a sexy dress and tell her you thought she’d look beautiful in it and don’t use the word HOT! Touch and kiss her a lot without expecting something in return. Many researches show that according women men don’t kiss enough.
Women Like Variety and I Mean Not Only in Bed.
Women don’t want sex the same way every time. If you approach her the same time on the same day every week looking for sex. Without a doubt, this will turn her off. The drive and eagerness will disappear and the boring sex will follow soon. And this isn’t what you want; you want hot and spectacular sex. I was reading this in a men’s magazine: from a woman “The best sex I ever had was in a car – the spontaneity was an amazing turn-on.” Try initiating sex when she least expect it, try a different day, a different time or a different location. You will love this!
Be Sure to Set Time Aside to be Together.
If you have small children, get a babysitter and take your wife out on a (unexpected) date. Spend time together by taking late evening walks. Do chores together and men you’ll probably hate this but go shop together and go for a nice lunch somewhere in a romantic lunchroom. The way to a better sex life will only start by spending more quality time together.
Communication is the Key.
Men only need a few words; this is the complete opposite with women, talk to her. Tell her that sex is one of the ways you express love to her and that it is an important part of the relationship. Ask her what you can do to fulfil her needs and provide her with a better sex life.
Cavemen Stay in Your Cave!
Women hate the cavemen mentality. I love sports and especially football and K1. But I know for sure that I don’t have to count on anything if I’ve spend my whole Sunday evening watching football on TV. Of course after watching football and enjoying my beer I would love to drag her upstairs and do my/our thing. But come on, I know better after an evening of ignoring her. Men!! Don’t ignore her all night as you watch a football game and especially if you are in a “good” mood and hope to get some later on. She doesn’t want to feel as if the only time you want her is for one purpose only. Show affection to your wife without expecting it to turn into sex. Loving and cherishing her will lead to a better sex life.
Sex is Something Very Emotional for Women.
A man is in general not emotional involved, we just want to get it on. A woman’s foreplay is more than the sexual act itself. It involves spending time together, talking and touching. A romantic dinner, a late night walk and holding hands are all part of the sexual experience of a woman. She wants an emotional as well as physical experience. Your partner wants do be physical connected with you and only than it’s time for sex. When there is romance, affection and sensitivity, than the “good” times can start.
She is Not Going to Forget it… No Never!!
A man remembers and experiences a sexual act from the last time. However a woman generally does not. Each of her lovemaking experiences builds on the last one. If the last time she made love with you, was an exciting experience. She will look forward to the next one with anticipation. If on the other-hand it was unsatisfying, she will be less enthusiastic. So remember this; if you give it your best this time, you’ll be rewarded the next time, and the time after that etc etc.
Drive her Wild with Anticipation.
She wants to be seduced. Tell her she is beautiful and how her body feels good. Tell her how much you love her. Teasing her with soft touches and holding her gently. Give her little kisses and nibbles and dirty talk in her ear. You will love this too and don’t give in the first time she wants to give you “any” back. Let her wait! This will be great for the both of you!
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