Give Her an Erotic Massage That Will Rock Her World.

What will happen if you whisper in her ear, “I give a great erotic massage”? What would she do? She would sit and wonder for a moment. She will be intrigued. She will imagine just lying there receiving pleasure that you made happen. Then she’d look at you seductively and say “Show me”.

Prepare your erotic massage and it will maximize your pleasure.

If you want to know how to give a massage, first set the mood with soft music. Don’t try to be romantic with Barry White or Sade. It’s much better to grab a nice and relaxing pop cd than a smooth Barry White cd, you don’t want to overdo it. Then it’s time for some rose petals on the bed, soft lighting and lit candles. You want to make sure your partner is comfortable during this erotic massage. She may want to shower/bath beforehand to make her feel less inhibited and relaxed. Just remember this is an erotic massage and not a back rub designed to relieve tension and pain. Rather you will want to use gentle, constant, rhythmic motion.

What you also want to prepare is what kind of massage oil do you want to use? Vegetable or baby oil?? Absolutely not!! You can buy great massage oils for under $20 or $30 and you can use them easily more than once. Pick an oil that evokes a certain emotion. For instance, lavender is for relaxation, and jasmine is an aphrodisiac. You decide whether you want to be a mastermind behind a Sleeping Beauty or a Passionate Pocahontas.

Okay kids, go play out side, it’s time for grown up talk. Where to start your erotic massage?

Start by lightly kissing her, touching her hair, gazing into her eyes. Start your erotic massage with your partner on her stomach, making sure her head is nestled on comfortable pillows.

Start the massage by pouring a small amount of lubricant in your hands. It’s very important to warm it up by rubbing your hands together before applying it. You don’t want to shock her.

Use just a little lubricant at first. You don’t want it to get too wet and sloppy, and you can always apply more if needed. Massages are about touch, so you want to keep constant contact of your hands with her body. Everyone is different in their likes and dislikes of a massage technique. So make sure you communicate with her during the erotic massage to see how you are doing. You can also listen to her breathing to determine if she is enjoying your massage technique. Or ask her softly if she wants you to use more pressure or lighter touches when you are working on a part of her body. Use fingertips in softer, more sensitive areas and full hand in areas such as the back and shoulders.

It’s time for some ultimate erotic massage techniques.

When you are learning how to give a massage, a good technique is to start with the feet, working up to the neck area, then turning her over on her back to work on her chest and legs. Become an expert on how to give a massage by using this for ultimate blood flow to the genital area.

Rub her feet, but don’t spend too much time here or she might get sleepy. Then work up the back of her legs, softly touching her inner thighs, brushing her genital area. Use your fingertips on the lower part of her bottom and top of her legs together, ending with tickles in her inner thighs. Working up, tickle the insides of the bottom crack. Work up the back, massaging on the outsides of the spinal cord, but not the spinal cord itself. Lightly tickle the lower middle back for a special sensation. Spend a few moments on an erotic massage of the neck and arms. Don’t rub too hard, still keeping with gentle movements. Rub her hands, devoting your time to each individual finger. Finish by holding each of her hands in each of your hands for a loving moment. Tell her you are going to turn her over at this point, and assist her in her repositioning as if she is a delicate china doll.

Gently rub her shoulders, and lightly touch her nipples and breast area, stroking the outer sides of the breasts together. You don’t want to be too invasive at this point, but you don’t want to ignore her super-sensitive areas either. Use fingertips down her stomach, gliding down towards her legs, lightly brushing her inner thighs, near her genital area. As you brush her inner thighs, gently rub her entire vulva, following with clitoral stimulation. Slowly use your fingers to give her internal pleasure.

So, my friends. I hope you all liked this article and that you’ll have a great night full of spectacular pleasure. Have Fun!!